is trust everything??

We all are losers (to an extent) in this so called 'game of life', but we still posess some inbuilt powers to recover from our worst to our better...

Good or bad, it dents everyones life but doesn't stop making a living...

Life is full of mistakes, then why shouldnt I be allowed atleast one!!! 

So given a definition, we knowingly/ unknowingly, willingly/unwillingly, tend to make mistakes!!!

Yes I have committed a mistake!!! 

Perhaps  we all do make mistakes ,we do repent , we do improve upon incourse of time( certainly not pre-defined : depends on how much we enjoy making mistakes)... 

The funda is as simple as its flaw(which comes flying so quickly to attack you, already knowing your intution of committing it..in advance 🤔).

But nothing to worry as its counterpartner  "the pacifier" ( i.e. our pretend/ lie / sorry) is always hiding somewhere (as a shield ) to mark it's entry, making the whole picture black and white... 

# the movie is in watch mode now#

Needless to say, it has made a remarkable effect on each others life, but incourse of time we keep shedding that extra pounds of guilt for good or God sake(whatever you say would sound the same at the end of the day).

Does this mean the story has a sad ending?? The probability is high, close to average but definitely not one. 

We still have chances to bounce back...

But Before we take up this further,  let's just quickly find out what builds our TRUST on others ( these are must be followed category) :-

1. ditching not allowed ( married/non married). 

2. Lie is strictly prohibited ( for everyone including children). 

3. Over friendly to opposite sex is a suicide(especially when already in a committed condition). 

4. Colleagues are just the property of office not yours... 

5. Secrets to be kept safe and secured.. 

So if you truly n wholeheartedly follow the above, you may land up being a trustworthy human being (still ungauranteed) unless another clause jumps into....🙄

Solution??? Well every broken trust needs all our patience, time, understanding and many small uncountable things ?? An unofficial deal signed by both the parties throughout the year, obeying it more and more seriously ever it happens again... .. 

But is my question still answered? Is trust the only parameter to be with someone ??Can we overlook the other parameters, which may supersede for an easy dismissal? Can a chance be ever given for a rejuvenation?

Let's take you to your flashback:

Ever  thought of the  reason behind every betrayal?....if not then let's take a real jump into the pool??  

It may be hard on the skin, heavy on the heart and scary when this bittery water comes splashing on you... Are you ready for this?? Its no magic...

We may not be able to erase that broken ends of the tape, but let's just forget what happened and try connect all those loosefitted or hanging ends, giving you another chance to work on your current situation.

 Sad as it feels, happy forgetting the past for the revival of new begining.. 

It takes a heavier heart to swallow such a big bite of word "forget"..

Devising new ways to make life transparent is the only agenda : ignoring once and for all,engaging in new activities, behaving casual as nothing ever happened and (on self assurance )nothing is bound to happen in future..

Case dismissed 

Mark my words, there  is no assurance or trademark of being a nice, humble, trustworthy, loyal human being in this world...

"Thank God, he made me as human and not God" I usually speak this in my mind... 

Being human is one self trait which we all possess... There is nothing we don't see or feel or hear ... It's nature and we all fall as prey in this mysterious game of attraction or repulsion...

"Trust is not a delete button for a mistake"

It's that devil who comes in the dark and try creating this button without a single hearing... 

I pray, this devil hides deep within before this button is pressed!!!!